Thank you, I just finished the whole thing. It was a great read, and now I need to go and wipe my eyes from all these onions I’ve been chopping. :)

I appreciate the elaboration and if I understand you correctly, I definitely think I agree.

The way I see it, if the instances & communities that make up the Fediverse grow like a garden (rather than an invasive weed - please bear with this analogy, lol) then eventually we should get small but active plots with new ghost pepper variants or even duran trees (talk about deranged!) that people can check out or share with those that are interested. That would be very cool, and would be a maturation I look forward to and will contribute to as best I can.

Exactly. I don’t understand why so many people have this mentality of ‘the fediverse must grow, or it’s a failure’, but I think a lot of them are from the recent reddit exodus (I am too, for the record) and are addicted to the firehose of content that a massive social media platform brings.

I participated less and less on reddit in recent years, after joining in 2007, partly because it became such a behemoth. Nowadays, I am enjoying the modest size of my lemmy instance and the values I’ve seen espoused throughout. It’s like a small(er) get together of like-minded people rather than an open-door rager - the first has always had more appeal to me, personally.