My main concern with nostr is that it’s developed by a man who’s abused me for 8 years without even knowing I existed
aah, more of that emo rhetoric. go file a lawsuit.
the beauty of nostr is: anyone can run a relay, so you and your emo friends can make a “safe space” relay, where all “hate speech” is censored.
tech bikeshedding
comparing two protocols is no bikeshedding.
activitypub instances can decide to block other instances like gab.com.
user accounts are bound to instances = vendor lockin.
etc…
a more decentralized protcol is nostr, see also https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/comment/136090